I ask that I be given a minimum 2 hours notice for this service to provide this service in my home. If you wish me to come to your home I require the same amount of notice.
To avoid charges for missed appointments, please cancel a minimum 1 hour prior to appointment time.
For our comfort and well being, please shower close to appointment time. Mouth should be cleansed and perfumes/colognes should not be worn. Shower & mouthwash are also provided in my apartment for your use.
Payment is due at the beginning of each session. I accept cash or money order
For legal reasons I only provide this service to those over the age of 18. While it isn’t a sexual service, I prefer to be cautious.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What should I wear & what about personal hygiene?
A: Wear comfy clothes that ‘feel’ good to wear. Think more comfy, than sexy. So like trakies or sweat pants and T-Shirt, even PJs if you so wish..
Personal Hygiene is a must. That means not to turn up straight after your gym or aerobics session. Remember we will be cuddling and speaking very closely with each other
Teeth brushed and shower beforehand is highly recommended. Please avoid perfumes and scented products like aftershave if possible. This makes it easier to cuddle you.
Clothes stay on for the whole session. No exceptions. Remember the session is totally non sexual.
You’re welcome to bring a pillow or cushion, too, if you like.
Q. Do we meet before we snuggle?
A. I suggest arriving on time so that we can spend 5 minutes discussing your needs and the rules of the session and ensure the comfort of both parties prior to any cuddling.
Q. What if I become sexually aroused during my session?
A. Don’t worry, it happens! Although sexual activity is not permitted, arousal is perfectly normal and should not make anyone feel uncomfortable.
Q. Am I supposed to talk during my session?
A. It’s really up to you. Although some people find that snuggling makes talking easier, the benefits of snuggling are not dependent upon being verbal.
Q. Do clothes/pajamas always stay on for the duration of our session?
A. Absolutely! Nudity is not permitted.
Q. Are snuggling sessions therapy?
A. Snuggling sessions are not therapy but they can be restorative, rejuvenating, comforting, playful and fun.
Q: What about sex? Isn’t cuddling about sex?
A: No, not at all. You will be shown clearly how it is not.
Our society is a little confused (or a lot!) about the nature of touch and sex.
All touch, and all cuddling, is not about sex. For some reason, Sadly, we are in a society in which the two are collapsed together. Most people have very little opportunity for touch or cuddling that isn’t part of sex.
Human beings of all ages need touch and affection. It’s innate. We never outgrow it. As we re-discover non-sexual touch and affection, find a comfortable and open space to enjoy and explore kindness and human affection with others. And we have more fun.
Cuddle Sessions are specifically designed to leave the sexual kinds of touch off the menu, so that the more inclusive, non-sexual kinds of touch have a chance to be discovered and enjoyed.
Many people find this quite natural. For others, it’s a new experience, or even challenging. Many people are surprised to find such a rich, comforting, playful and fun experience.